Just a thought

I came across a question in the web......how moral is it to adopt on grounds of childlessness. I was a bit perplexed and it made me think things over....conclusion:-most actions are fuelled by thoughts...and thus a thought behind any action, negative or positive is equally, if not less responsible for the actual action. When we give or receive a gift we often colloquially say....the thought behind this gift is more important than the gift itself. But adoption, for whatever reasons, under whatever circumstances defies this idea, the way I think, the actual act of adoption is more impactful, more relevant than any thought that has worked behind it. Thus morality status of any kind of adoptive parenthood stands futile in my opinion.