"Maybe we set sights upon things that we know we cannot attain. It's just the romance of the longing for such things. :)"

Golden words again from this friend.....oh he is so good with words, I envy him. There are so few people I actually like, and some of them come closest to what could have been the idea of a soulmate(I read somewhere, a soulmate need not be a lover or a spouse). But then I am unfortunate and very very bad at maintaining easiness in a relationship. So alas.